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2019-02-19
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No more vanilla? What does BDSM adult jobs actually mean

No more vanilla? What does

BDSM adult jobs in the spotlight

Since Fifty Shades of Grey was published, more and more people started to interested in BDSM. These kind of adult jobs are certainly not new, but they recently came to the spotlight and created a lot of misunderstandings. So what does these erotic jobs involve?

Many linked BDSM to violence, but in reality it is a consensual practice.

BDSM is about power play and awakening the senses

To understand better BDSM, we asked Genna, a domina to explain what her erotic job involves. I don't know if people really understand that BDSM is not necessary about sex, in the conventional way, it's more like an erotic play for adults.

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First of all, you must have consent and safety and second of all - you need to set boundaries.

You have to discuss your boundaries with your partner, explain what you want and most importantly what you don't want because safety is what makes BDSM so fun and in some cases even healing.

So how is your adult job perceived by the public?

Erotic jobs like mine were very stigmatised in the past, but I am glad that the perception has changed thanks to 50 Shades of Grey. It is important to understand that these erotic jobs are not dangerous and that our clients are not psychologically disturbed people.

If we want to talk about numbers, around 60% of people admit that they tried or would like to try BDSM.

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The number might seem too high, but let's not forget that BDSM can mean just being blindfolded or hand cuffed to the bed and let's be honest - who hasn't fantasied about it? All I'm trying to say and to make clear is that my adult job can be healing to some people, it can be consciousness-expanding, so I'm glad people start to have a different approach when it comes to BDSM. I like that more and more people are open to try different things in the bedroom and not afraid to talk about sexuality.

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Basic concepts

All kind of erotic and adult works are jobs, that only a 18+ person can do, because it usually includes sexual services and in return, the client pays money or buy expensive gifts for the sexworker. A sexworker's service can include almost anything that you can imagine, but even adult job without sex eg. fetish jobs, femdom, massage job, hostess job, webcam job or dancing. And also it doesn't matter if you are boy or girl or trans or even your sexual orientation, because any adult person can be an escort or a sexworker. Don't forget, that the choice is always yours, nobody can force you to do sexwork! Usually we distinguish between incall and outcall erotic jobs, so for exaple the sexworker can work in a studio, private salon or brothel, or it can be outcall, so they meet somewhere with the guest, that can be a hotel, the client's house or anywhere else.. 

You can first think, that every kind of escorts earn money with sex, but it isn't the truth! Escorting in reality means companionship, e.g. wealthy men who are lonely or just want to have a little fun or relieve stress pays for an escort's time, to be with her/him. They want to skip the dating part, and immediately jump to the best time ever, so basically these people want to hire a romantic partner for only a short term. We call it outcall, if the guest orders the company to their hotel room, home or weekend house etc.. There are VIP or High Class escort girls also, who are especially expensive and only the richest can pay for their escort work services, which include the 'GFE' girlfriend experience, which means that the escort girl treats the guest as if she would be his real girlfriend, this is also one of the most wanted service.

Erotic massage work just like the tantra massage is an erotic work category, because the masseuse girls or boys can provide extra services in addition to massage! Of course you can apply for a normal massage job without any sexuality, but if you would like to offer more in your service, then you can choose from erotic massage jobs, for more earnings. There are several types of classic massage, which are completely sex-free and erotic-free work, but on Red-Life you will usually find tantra massage work, which provides a tantric experience, also called touching the soul through the body! In each case, before you apply for one of them, ask about the specific job, what kind of massage it is and what the expected services are.

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