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How escort jobs affect escort girl's mental health in the USA and worldwide

How escort jobs affect escort

Contrary to the popular belief that escort jobs lead to a mental breakdown, escort girls are normal

People often underestimate the effect work has on our mental health. Like any other erotic or non-erotic job, having escort jobs also affects your mental health. You might work in a big city in the USA, earn a lot of money in an office in New York, have a 9 to 5 average job, but seating in an unconfortable chair or stair at a computer screen can still damage you mentally on long term.

Being a sex worker can have all kind of negative effects on you, but having a flexibilbe schedule, as many sick days as you like can give you a sense of freedom no average 9 to 5 job can offer.

Having an escort job in the USA

Like many sex workers, starting work as an escort girl isn't many girls first choice of occupation. Many young ladies in the USA and worldwide finish college and a few are lucky enough to have a shot at working in their dream jobs. Usually, they're dreams become nightmares once they realize that they are expected to intern for free, day after day, month after month, year after year... And this becomes a real issue for those who need to pay rent, bills and food, because let's face it - life in America and even in Europe is expensive.

Once girls get dissapointed in their dream jobs, they change jobs. The most common jobs, young girls seek are working as waitresses or as bartenders.

Girls working in bars or night clubs usually meet hostess girls, who earn a lot of money for basically flirting, drinking and dancing. Once they start to chat with these hostess girls, they realize that these ladies are no different than them and still earn a lot more money, so they start to get interested in adult jobs and erotic jobs, read about them and many choose to work as escort girls at escort agencies.

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Being your own boss is the biggest luxury in escort jobs

Being your own boss and setting your own schedule when having an escort job is the biggest luxury most people never get to experience. Lola, a 32 year old active escort girl shares how she felt when she changed her career path and started escorting at the age of 24.

I used to work 12 hour shifts at a bar. Customers always pinched my bum when I was clearing the glasses; my boss never said anything to the clients, instead he told be to suck it up.

Even today, when I go to a client and see how he treats me and how much money I earn for 1 night, I think of the pub customers and feel that sense of hatred. I remember at the biginning, how mind-blowing it was to be able to afford small luxuries and how happy I started to be after stating to work as an escort girl.

I am not ashamed of my erotic job, I am proud of myself and happy. I started to work as an escort girl because I wanted to exist without aching poverty, to work hard on being as healthy both physically and mentally as possible and to be able to be able to buy an expensive shoe or bag once in a while without thinking about it for weeks.

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Basic concepts

All kind of erotic and adult works are jobs, that only a 18+ person can do, because it usually includes sexual services and in return, the client pays money or buy expensive gifts for the sexworker. A sexworker's service can include almost anything that you can imagine, but even adult job without sex eg. fetish jobs, femdom, massage job, hostess job, webcam job or dancing. And also it doesn't matter if you are boy or girl or trans or even your sexual orientation, because any adult person can be an escort or a sexworker. Don't forget, that the choice is always yours, nobody can force you to do sexwork! Usually we distinguish between incall and outcall erotic jobs, so for exaple the sexworker can work in a studio, private salon or brothel, or it can be outcall, so they meet somewhere with the guest, that can be a hotel, the client's house or anywhere else.. 

You can first think, that every kind of escorts earn money with sex, but it isn't the truth! Escorting in reality means companionship, e.g. wealthy men who are lonely or just want to have a little fun or relieve stress pays for an escort's time, to be with her/him. They want to skip the dating part, and immediately jump to the best time ever, so basically these people want to hire a romantic partner for only a short term. We call it outcall, if the guest orders the company to their hotel room, home or weekend house etc.. There are VIP or High Class escort girls also, who are especially expensive and only the richest can pay for their escort work services, which include the 'GFE' girlfriend experience, which means that the escort girl treats the guest as if she would be his real girlfriend, this is also one of the most wanted service.

Erotic massage work just like the tantra massage is an erotic work category, because the masseuse girls or boys can provide extra services in addition to massage! Of course you can apply for a normal massage job without any sexuality, but if you would like to offer more in your service, then you can choose from erotic massage jobs, for more earnings. There are several types of classic massage, which are completely sex-free and erotic-free work, but on Red-Life you will usually find tantra massage work, which provides a tantric experience, also called touching the soul through the body! In each case, before you apply for one of them, ask about the specific job, what kind of massage it is and what the expected services are.

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